The Man used to do this to me almost every time I travelled. He probably had no clue that it upset me so much, but damn - did it ever. It just hurts....
I leave today to go to visit Stella in Germany for a few days and visit Ramstein air force base. Then heading to DC for the AUSA convention, followed by some quality time with the family. Two weeks in total.
Last night, Sothern Bedu calls to tell me he is in "a black mood" and doesn't want me to see him like that. Goes on about troubles at work. Yada. Ok fine. I'm almost biting and almost giving him a pass.... and then he drops the, "... so I'm going out to the guys for sheesha." (and near my house!) Really? Seriously? The night before I leave? Guess you can plan on having intimate relations with your buddies too too cause it aint on with me.
Dayam boy, you do know how to phuck up, don't you?
(Irish/American Indian temper genes set in. I'm not havin it.
He starts explaining (don't you KNOW when to stop???), "... nobody's perfect. I have flaws."
Here is my philosophy on love relationshits and one partner travelling: He/she should want to spend as much time with the traveller before they leave as possible... IF you love each other. And for a few days following his/her return, maybe the same. Why wouldn't the person that you love want to be with you? I don't get it. Not that I'm clingy or anything (seriously I'm not a clingon).
The Man practically used to drop me off curbside at my house before running away. Wrong wrong wrong: and see where we are now.
I'm tired. Really tired. I need to recharge. I feel like I have a cloud above my head at the moment.
Leeeeee-vin on a jet plane....