Names for both men
and women follow your patriarchal lineage.
A woman from an Islamic family always keeps her full name even after
marriage. Most names are religious;
either one of the 99 names of God, or prophets and their wives/children.
In contrast, in
Western countries where women normally take their husband’s last name. This
becomes problematic for women who have gone through several marriages; when you
marry or re-marry, you must legally change your name on all your official
documentation.
So, in Islamic
naming conventions, your name would be: your given name, your father's first name,
your grandfather's first name, your great grandfather's first name, your
great-great grandfather's first name (and so on); and then your tribe or family name as your
last name. It really forces you to know your lineage.
This naming convention
also explains why in Western countries, we tend to misunderstand names of
people from Islamic countries, if not provided with enough information. For
example, if someone tells you that their name is "Mohammed Ali," you
can usually ask him what his family name is or their full name is;
"Mohammed Ali Talal Al-Jassem" for example (there are exceptions, of
course). So, some people can get away with passport changes if they only
include their father's name, then they can go back and add their grandfather's
name also and Western people see it as a completely different person.
Also, the "Al-"
(predominantly in the Arabian Gulf Region) is the same as "Mc" or
"Mac" or "O'" in Irish, Scottish names. It means
"of" (whatever family name).
So..... If someone from the Gulf tells you
that their name is just “Al” then they are just a jerk and you don’t need to
talk to them anyways.
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