I'm taking down that last post - not deleting because I got some really good comments from people who gave me pause to think - and also provided needed support. But... it was waaaaay to whiny/needy/co-dependant girl for me. I'm not that.
I am responding to 2 of the comments made on the last post on the comments here.
There were 2 comments to my "I think I have been pushed too far" Post:
ReplyDelete“Maybe he read your blog and saw how you wanted him to be jealous with your trashy elevator fantasies?” And, “Im with Anonymous at 4:36AM, if I were him and read your posts about credit debits and so forth, im headin for the hills.”
I would like to say that on that one issue THANK GOD that he is man enough to trust me regardless of flirting (in front of him and when I'm away from him). He he does indeed read this blog. He's secure enough in his own manhood to know me and know what I would or wouldn't do. He's not a boy, he's a man.
You're right - not sugar coating. That was just insulting.
Trashy elevator fantasies are just that - fantasy. And anyone who wants to "head for the hills" and can't communicate how he feels about something isn't much of a man in my book. We may have other issues, but that was never one of them.
As usual, in a lot of my posts, I can't write with 100% clarity or detail about any personal situation (not that I want to - only a chosen few know my whole story), so what I wrote wasn't the half of it. There are always more sides.
... WTF are you referring to as "credit debits and so forth"?
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