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Thursday, August 27, 2009
Virginia at Tysons Corner - Scorned Wife Gets Revenge
I'd say no one is a saint, but this is a very very brave man, his willing to do so reflects his will to be back to this wife and for ever, in a creepy way it reflects his love to her. As from her side, I tend to beleive that she made him do that as a test rather than a punishment "if he really does that, that means he's really regreting it and willing to be faithful for the rest of his life, willing to stay with me forever, didn't really fall in love with that other woman, it was a mistake, but he still loves me, I'm the woman in his life" many women though beleives that "once a cheater, always a cheater"
I don't think it has anything to do with bravery or his "love" for her. If he loved her, he wouldn't have cheated. I think it has more to do with alimony and having to PAY. If you're caught cheating, a lot of states give 50% of your income to your spouse on divorce. It has nothing to do with love. I am of the opinion "once a cheater, always a cheater." I'm cynical; I know it.
As for the moral of the story, you shouldn't have to - there should be enough trust that either spouse won't do wrong.
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I'd say no one is a saint, but this is a very very brave man, his willing to do so reflects his will to be back to this wife and for ever, in a creepy way it reflects his love to her. As from her side, I tend to beleive that she made him do that as a test rather than a punishment "if he really does that, that means he's really regreting it and willing to be faithful for the rest of his life, willing to stay with me forever, didn't really fall in love with that other woman, it was a mistake, but he still loves me, I'm the woman in his life" many women though beleives that "once a cheater, always a cheater"
ReplyDeleteAnd the moral of this story is: "Always, always, pay attention to your cell phone and delete SMS and call log"
ReplyDeleteI don't think it has anything to do with bravery or his "love" for her. If he loved her, he wouldn't have cheated. I think it has more to do with alimony and having to PAY. If you're caught cheating, a lot of states give 50% of your income to your spouse on divorce. It has nothing to do with love. I am of the opinion "once a cheater, always a cheater." I'm cynical; I know it.
ReplyDeleteAs for the moral of the story, you shouldn't have to - there should be enough trust that either spouse won't do wrong.